Mentor To Marry
A guided path for Christian singles preparing for intentional marriage.
For singles ready for Kingdom marriages.
Mentoring
Begin with counsel before connection.
M2M starts with guided mentoring so singles slow down, build clarity, and prepare for the responsibility of marriage.9:41M2M
Mentoring
Begin with counsel before connection.
M2M starts with guided mentoring so singles slow down, build clarity, and prepare for the responsibility of marriage.8 week classesReadiness surveysAccountability
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Mentoring first
Before matching begins, M2M helps you prepare for the kind of marriage you are praying for.
Mentoring is not an add-on. It is the first part of the M2M process, helping serious Christian singles build clarity, maturity, and accountability before recommendations or introductions.
8 weeks of mentoring classes
The journey begins with teaching that helps singles examine readiness, faith, values, communication, and the realities of covenant marriage.
Assessments and guided reflection
Surveys and readiness prompts help members understand where they are strong, where they need growth, and what kind of support they need next.
Accountability before introductions
Chats, recommendations, and off-platform introductions work best after members have been prepared, reviewed, and supported with care.
A community of serious Christian singles.
These are fictional AI-generated portraits for preview only. M2M protects member privacy while showing the kind of diverse, marriage-minded community the process is built to serve.
Coaches and founders
Guided by people who understand faith, love, and marriage.
Kingsley and Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo bring practical wisdom, and a deeply human standard of trust to the M2M journey for serious Christian singles in Nigeria, the diaspora, and beyond.
“The goal is not simply to meet someone. The goal is to become ready for the kind of marriage you are praying for.”
Kingsley Okonkwo
Membership
Choose the level of preparation and guidance that fits your season.
Each membership path starts with mentoring, then opens access to the M2M matching journey. Current membership and checkout details are handled securely on Selfany.
Regular
For singles beginning the M2M mentoring and matching journey with structure and accountability.
- 8 Weeks Mentoring Classes
- Assessments & Surveys
- Browse Limited Profiles
- Accountability System
- Country-based matching pool
Premium
For singles who want broader access, richer mentoring resources, and stronger recommendation support.
- Everything in Regular
- Monthly Profile Recommendations
- Browse Unlimited Profiles
- Priority Access to Coaches
- Access to Global Pool and Profiles
- Private Groups
VIP
For singles who want the most personal level of mentoring, protection, and introduction support.
- Everything in Premium
- Dedicated Matchmaker and Coach
- Priority Access to PK & PM
- Browse Unlimited Profiles
- Off Platform Introductions
- M2M Profile Shield™
- Access to Global Profiles
Want to start gently? The Singles Community is open to everyone. Choose a membership package for more details. Membership does not guarantee a match, mutual interest, or marriage.
Singles community
Not ready yet? Join the free singles community for people ready for marriage.
A free space for Christian singles to learn, connect, receive teachings, and stay close to the M2M journey until they are ready for guided membership.
- Free teachings and materials for singles preparing for marriage
- A singles community ready for marriage
- Updates, events, and next steps into M2M
FAQ
Good questions deserve straight answers.
M2M is built around mentoring, readiness, and accountability before matching. The goal is not endless swiping; it is a guided path for Christian singles who are preparing for intentional marriage.
Mentoring helps members slow down, clarify values, and prepare for the responsibility of marriage. Matching works better when people have been reviewed, guided, and helped to understand what they are ready for.
Members complete onboarding and assessments, then their profile and readiness signals are reviewed before recommendations are made. The process is designed to protect seriousness, safety, and alignment.
Membership includes access to the M2M preparation flow, mentoring-led guidance, assessments, review, and eligibility for recommendations based on your plan and readiness stage.
No. Membership gives you access to the guided process, but it does not guarantee a match, mutual interest, or marriage. M2M prioritizes responsible recommendations over forced outcomes.
Yes. M2M is designed to support serious Christian singles beyond one city or country, including people in the diaspora, while keeping the process values-led and review-based.
Begin with intention